豆瓣网友:Terrence:You're dead,Carl.You say no life,and therefore you've not living.You make up excuses to the people around you and to yourself.You're stuck in the same deadend job.You have been for years.You don't have a girlfriend.You don't have anything close to a girlfriend.And you lost the love of your life because she couldn't be with someone who didn't live theirs.And on most nights you're so bored and filled with ennuiyou can't even summon the enthusiasm necessary to masturbate.All I right?泰伦斯:卡尔,你的心已死,你总是对生活说不,生活便对你关上了门。你编造种种借口敷衍身边的人,敷衍自己。长久以来,你都陷在了一份毫无前途的工作中,你连女朋友都没有一个,甚至没有认识个女朋友的机会,你失去了生活中的挚爱,因为她不想和一个孬种共度一生。在大多数个夜晚,你筋疲力尽,百无聊赖,甚至没有痛痛快快地完成一次手淫。我说的对吗,卡尔?,鲍瑞斯·兰考什导演对阿加塔·布泽克说:"当眼泪流下来,才知道,分开也是另一种明白。"破牛仔裤怎么和晚礼服站在一起,我的吉他怎么可以和你的钢琴合奏。虽然知道不现实,爱情不是生命的全部,现实残酷,不是有了爱情就能幸福的生活,但至少我在他心里一定要是非常重要的一个人把他整个的一生都押在女人的爱那一张牌上头赌博,那张牌输了,他就那样地灰心丧气,弄得自己什么事都不能做,这种人不算一个男人,不过是一个雄性生物。(《父与于》)